I have always delt with insecurities from my childhood. Feelings of abandonment, lack of acceptance and love. In my 30’s I had many ups and downs. Everything looked perfect about my life and my family from the outside, but on the inside things were spiraling out of control. I was masquerading and pretending to others and myself that everything was okay when it was not.
I wasn’t happy. I didn’t know who I really was outside of being a father and a husband. My hopes and goals for myself had become just dreams deferred. I allowed others to put their limitations on me and I reverted to playing small, hiding out from what I really wanted in life.
Then my house of cards came tumbling down when and I ended up in a nasty divorce, going through depression and trying to figure out where to live and how I was going to continue to be a great father to my sons. It was my low of lows.
Here’s the thing. I wanted to change through it all, but I just couldn’t make myself do it. The smallest things felt impossible to me. I read books, got counseling and nothing stuck. I prayed for clarity and it never came.
The truth is…
You know what to do.
It’s inside of you already.
I’M HERE TO BE YOUR GUIDE AND TO SHOW YOU HOW.
Have you ever felt lost, confused or stuck? I was unsure of how to connect the dots between my dreams and my current reality. I was so frustrated because I knew what I wanted, but I didn’t know how to get it. I am an ambitious person, but my lack of direction and confidence was holding me back, big time.
Then I had my ah-ha moment. I heard someone say in a video “why settle for anything other than amazing” and it was like my mindset had just completed a long update and rebooted. Then I had the crazy idea. Why would I settle? I deserve better. I deserve more.
I know I’m here to make a difference in people’s lives and in the world. I know I want to do something that matters. I’m ready to take every area of my life to the next level. I’m ready for a better mindset, better habits, and a better life for myself.